A lot of women wear makeup, and jewelry, and do their hair every day. Hopefully, we do these things because they make us feel good about ourselves, not just to be more attractive to men. This is especially true now that we know that men find women who are plain and simple to be the … Read more
Every week, men and women who are unhappy in their relationships send me hundreds of messages. They want to understand their problems and their partner’s role in them, even if that means they keep repeating “facts” that haven’t been proven and can’t decide what to do, where to start, or whether to leave or stay. … Read more
Over the years, I’ve been known as “the smart one.” Whenever Charlie Rose has an interesting guest or NPR’s “Science Friday” features a new discovery, I get very excited. I’ve been to the top of the academic food chain, taught at the university level, and even used the word “symbiosis” off-hand during a conversation on … Read more
Compatibility is one of the most important factors in maintaining a marriage or relationship. When the partners are compatible, there is little that can derail their well-cultivated bond! Although differences and arguments are unavoidable in any relationship, suitable couples know how to resolve them. As a result, they find it easier to maintain their marriage. … Read more
Love is something that we all desire. We are hardwired to not just want it, but also to require it for survival. There is just one word in the English language that can convey different meanings of love. We say “I love you” to family, friends, and the individual with whom we are in a … Read more
When you learn about what introversion is, it can feel like someone is watching your life. You do enjoy being alone. You despise making superficial small conversation. Spending too much time mingling with other people drains you, makes you cranky, and can even make you physically ill (a.k.a. the introvert hangover). However, other features of … Read more
Without a doubt, men and women have some similar insecurities, but dating highlights some significant differences. I’ve discovered patterns in the gender-specific insecurities from the hundreds of clients I’ve counselled over the years. Men and women are more equal today than they have ever been, but sexism is still pervasive and still brings out creepy, … Read more
The day has been saved by science… or at the very least guide you in some important life decisions. The decision to get married is a significant one, and many people seem to be anxious about the timing. Have you ever run into one of those desperate women looking for a husband solely because the … Read more
How often have you regretted “ignoring the signs” or “wasting time” with someone you knew wasn’t the right person after a date? What similarities can you find between the last five to ten dates you went on? Do you frequently go on dates with the same man? Are you feeling guilty about letting men treat … Read more